Dear pals,
It has been a weird week. Last Friday morning, I came to tell my Lady, Lee was not ok. I just came and gave a sad stare at my Lady and she understood. That is when Lady saw Lee really couldn't get up or really didn't want to get up. This led to a very long day where the people were sad, and Lee was just lying on her bed, not wanting to eat or drink (not even eat the pizza Man bought - it was good). Then the people left and came back without her.
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| Checking out the melting snow |
Since then, we have all be sad. I do look for her (especially when my people come back from going out, I wonder if they brought her back). I sniff her favourite pee spots to see if there is any fresh pee. I have accepted her favourite bed in the closet, when before I didn't like a bed in there.
Mostly I keep to my routine. I spend most of the day in the closet, which is what I did before. I come out for short periods to eat and do my business. I tolerate extra love and my people trying to play with me. I take my short walks and hope to see the neighbours when I do go out. Other than a little checking, I seem to be doing ok. Lady thinks that is because I understand in my own way.
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| Pretending to want to play to make my people happy |
In Lee's honour, because she started this all, we will keep the name of the blog as the Hailey and Zaphod Chronicles. Both Lady and I are trying to figure out who we are with Hailey as our bosses.
Thanks again for all your love pals.
you pal, Zaphod, who is sad and ok
that is so good to keep the name... she is always with us.,... in our heart... and in the name of your blog... hugs to you...
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ReplyDeleteThat's absolutely fair, Phoddy, as there remain many chronicles of Lee's time with you all. It will feel very strange being the 'only child' for a while... But I suspect you'll get used to it. Hugs and wags YAM-aunty xxx
this blog will always have the chronicles of both of you, one angel and one sweet boy trying to keep his people happy.. hugs coming to you through pooling tears for you and Hailey
ReplyDeleteWe understand how sad you and your parents must be, Phod. Our paws are crossed that in time you will enjoy your life a bit more.
ReplyDeletePhod and Lady
ReplyDeleteSending lots of hugs and understanding to you all...as you remember Lee. She lived and love each and everyday with all her heart.
I do so very much understand. Angel Madi was for certain the boss and 100% my inspiration.
Take you time do what feels right.
Hugs cecilia
We send respect, it is hard, peace to you,
ReplyDeleteI’m so sorry. My Ryder was having a hard time this morning. I’m grieving his loss while he is still here. It’s all so hard. Hugs
ReplyDeletePhod, our hearts break for you. I'm so sorry Lee isn't there with you anymore. I hope all the good memories that you have of of all your time together helps ease the sadness that you're feeling. But we know it will take time. Purrs and hugs to you...and your Lady and Man. ~Murphy and the Lady
ReplyDeleteIt is very hard. We have had the vet come to the home and have gone to the vet office with various dogs. We have found that having the vet come to the home helps the dogs process the grief a little bit better but that is just our personal experience. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteSomedays, it's so hard to be happy without your sister, Phod. We think keeping your blog the same name is a good thing.
ReplyDeleteI am sending you 1,000 hugs.sweet baby. Look for Lee in your dreams
ReplyDeleteIt hurts losing a friend like that, Phod. Sorry you have to go through that.
ReplyDeleteIt is very hard to lose your special companion, Phod. We were both sad when Lightning left us, especially Timber. It takes time, for both the humans and the furries. We hope all the wonderful memories of Hailey will help all of you.
ReplyDeleteWoos - Misty and Timber
We know how you miss Lee, and its OK to be sad. Sending tons of hugs to you and to your Lady and Man
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